It has been published!

Dec 17, 2019

This is a repost of an article that was first published on Cherished and Successful on 17 Dec 2019

To all the ladies who signed up to my mailing list on the first unofficial book launch to The Four Traits of a Cherished Muslimah, and to all my Cherished Readers!


It finally got published. A few years ago, I met an old acquaintance who asked me what I was up to, and I told him I was writing a book. His amused reply: ‘weren’t you writing a book around five years ago?’

Alhamdulillah, I feel so blessed that Allah has got me this far. It truly has been a labour of love. I stopped writing when I was affected by my extreme disconnect from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and only once I had made that connection to him ﷺ did everything just fall. into. place.

It’s been a journey. Just like when you go to the beach and you collect the really nice shells and pebbles, something to hold on to, to remind you of the sea when you get back to the city, the planes, the tube and traffic jams. That’s what writing this book was like: collecting all the wisdoms and what-works and putting them together. Then sifting out all the repetition and jargon and stuff no-one really wants to know about but you…

I pray that this book helps many women.

I pray it helps us all resurrect the identity of a woman: the strong, powerful, intimate, tender, nurturing, wise, knowing and just woman. AmatuLlah.

May Allah bless you all and send His peace and blessings upon our master Muhammad and his family.

Alhamdulillah, all praise is for Allah, I can’t believe it, my book, which has been ten years in the making, has finally been published!  It is available to order through my publishers, Beacon Books, international shipping via The Book Depository, and even though Amazon let a lot of people down with their pre-order promised deliveries, they have started to deliver now mashaAllah.

The Four Traits of a Cherished Muslimah is a marriage manual for women – to help them cultivate happy and successful marriages, as a form of worship and emulation of our master, Messenger of Allah ﷺ.   To create a happy marriage, to be strong-minded and empowered and be cherished by Allah for it – now that’s what I call a win-win situation!  And those who know me know that I love win-win situations!

The Four Traits is for all women – whether you are single or married you will find something in it for you.  It is also for men – self-empowerment tools are good for us all of us and a female perspective always helps!

I am now in the process of finalising the companion workbook to The Four Traits so that my workshops and online courses can inshaAllah once again resume – they have been on pause for the last 7-8 years or so!  I'm ready to go…. I hope you going to join me on the journey!

Rabbi al Awwal 1441 – December 2019

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