Cherished Couples

 

Creating marriages that balance strength and power with mercy and connection through the four traits.

Emulating the prophetic ﷺ example, in a way that gains you Allah’s ﷻ love!

Are you a Muslim couple? 

 Are you experiencing a lack of intimacy with your spouse, emotional connection or closeness?

Do either of you want to improve your marriage?

Do either of you want to be cherished by Allah, doing things to please Him?

Do either of you want to provide a solid ground for all members of your family to flourish, including each other?

Do either of you want to nourish your lives and marriage and flourish through the seasons of life?

If you answered yes to any of these, then I would love to work with you!

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Honouring the Masculine & Feminine 

I celebrate both masculinity and femininity in men and women.  I acknowledge that both men and women need both energies to be balanced.  Just like Allah has strong (jamali) and beautiful (jalali) attributes, and just like The Messenger of Allah ﷺ was grounded in his sovereign leadership energy, having strong warrior energy as well as compassionate care, we are all a fusion of beautiful energies, both masculine and feminine. 

Indeed, there are times when a man needs masculine energy (e.g. resilience, determination, organisation) from the women in his life and times when a woman needs feminine energy (e.g. tenderness, care, and cooperation) from the men in her life.  A marriage needs a beautiful balance where both husband and wife can complement and strengthen each other.

Coaching For Your Relationships & Soul

✔ A four-week programme to help both of you to uncover your traits of leadership, love, wisdom and justice

✔ Work together to create a marriage where both of your needs are being met

✔ Create a unique balance of love, respect and teamwork in your guardianship roles

✔ Guidance on how to communicate effectively and cultivate marriage based on intimacy and honour

✔ 8 hours of coaching - one individual coaching session for both husband and wife and three joint sessions as a couple 

 

 

Cherished Couples

£1,097

4-Week Coaching Programme

  • Establish aspirations and goals
  • Eight hours of coaching
  • Experience practical change
  • Encouragement through coaching
  • Enjoy a new way of being
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Couples Coaching

Are you aware that there may be something that YOU are doing that is contributing to the challenges you are currently facing?

A four-week programme to help both of you to uncover your traits of leadership, love, wisdom and justice to live more balanced lives and to cultivate a marriage of intimacy and fulfilment.

If you would like to discuss how couples coaching can help you overcome your relational challenges, then book a FREE discovery call with me so that we can discuss how I can best help you.

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Harmonious Aspirations

Him

Her

 Week one consists of a couples' coaching session to discuss your challenges, aspirations and desired outcomes to create a harmonious relationship.

Work on strengthening yourself where you are imbalanced and identify which strengths you can bring to your marriage.

Think Win-Win

Is your spouse:

Upset with you or distancing themselves from you?

Reluctant to spend time with you or be physically intimate with you?

Resentful of your behaviour?

Week 2 brings the two of you together to discuss how you can move forward in a way in which both of your needs are met in the best way possible and to learn new skills that will enable you to both behave relationally.

Adjustments & Fine Tuning

Him

Her

During week 3, individual coaching sessions for both of you look at how things are changing and how you would like to progress to meet your desired goals.  

A Unique Working Balance

Week 4 brings the two of you together once again to work together as a stronger team to create a unique working balance.

A Cherished Marriage

Explore your part in your areas of conflict and learn new skills that can improve your relational skills and in doing so improve your marriage.

Cultivate a marriage where the man is empowered and grounded. Where he has conviction and charge of his own life, whilst being merciful and loving.

Create a marriage where the woman thrives and is empowered whilst tapping into her innate power of respectful and intuitive femininity.

Resurrect what it truly means to be a Muslim man and woman, and nourish your marriage and life by cultivating the four traits of leadership, love, wisdom and justice - emulating the prophetic ﷺ example, in a way that gains you Allah’s ﷻ love.

Relational Living 

Through my current ongoing training in Relational Life Therapy, I teach my clients relational skills so that while they grow, so do their relationships. Self-development is only useful if it supports healthy relationships, and I help my clients to grow and nourish their relationships at the same time.  I also gently bring to light problematic imbalances of power and bring my clients back to a way of life that stands for respect, love, compassion and justice from an Islamic viewpoint.

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Cherished Couples

£1,097

4-Week Coaching Programme

  • Establish aspirations and goals
  • Eight hours of coaching
  • Experience practical change
  • Encouragement through coaching
  • Enjoy a new way of being
BOOK A FREE DISCOVERY CALL

Coaching For Your Relationships & Soul

✔ A four-week programme to help both of you to uncover your traits of leadership, love, wisdom and justice

✔ Work together to create a marriage where both of your needs are being met

✔ Guidance on how to communicate effectively and cultivate marriage based on love and respect

✔ 8 hours of coaching - two individual coaching sessions for both husband and wife and two joint sessions as a couple 

 

Emotional & Effective Harmony

Controlling another person or forgoing one's needs both come with a heavy price: a lack of generosity, no desire for closeness or sexual intimacy, resentment and opposition. 

Let me show you a new roadmap with skills to help men become more responsible and emotionally available while helping women become less resentful and more effective.

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Directive Coaching & Mentoring 

My coaching and mentoring is not non-directive – I will tell you what to do in situations, educating and equipping you to have a corrective emotional experience with your spouse or loved ones.

I am here to help you to do things differently and to support you as you learn skills that allow your relationship to flourish.

Advocating Respect

As a mentor and advocate of Full Respect Living, I help my clients to commit to a life where they respect those around them and ensure they are respected also. 

I acknowledge that both toxic masculinity, where one person (whether male or female) has detrimental power or control over another, and toxic femininity, where one person (again, whether male or female) detrimentally forgoes their own needs for the sake of, or under the compulsion of others, are both unhealthy and harmful. 

When I coach couples, I don’t remain neutral.  I will take sides when there is an unhealthy power imbalance.  I will show them a mirror, gently and loving, and allow them to see the consequences of what happens when one spouse has power over the other, and what happens when we don’t ensure that we are respected by others.

'A Whole New World'

I’ve come such a long way since my work with you

I was in such a mess with that relationship. I worked through my worthiness, self-love, finding myself and building my relationship with Allah. You introduced me to a whole new world

Coaching Client 

'Saved My Marriage' 

Reaching out to Sara and the attention she gives, the guidance, the support has saved me, and has saved our marriage.
 
There is lots of work to be done I pray with Sara’s coaching and invaluable advice we can be a successful family inshaAllah.
 
Coaching Client

'Intentions'

Sara empowered me to set boundaries, and stand up for myself.

She reminded me about my intentions and goals, and in general to have a much happier marriage and life.

 Coaching Client

'21st Century Skills'

We have been trying to negotiate 21st-century relationships using 20th-century skills.

Neither acquiescence nor coercive control will get us what we most deeply want.  It's time to start respecting our own needs and the needs of our loved ones. 

Are you ready to learn new skills?

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